Sunday July 30, 2006
Ladies, good sex makes happy marriages
MARRIAGE, the most complicated of human relationships, can be enduring if more attention is paid to what goes on in the bedroom, particularly the wife’srole. If both parties have a satisfying sex life, three-quarters of the battle is won and the marriage is likely to be more long lasting.
Although this is not guaranteed, it will make the man more accommodating in other areas (for example, finance) when he knows he can get good and satisfying sex from his wife. And he will look forward to it each time they make love.
Generally Asian women are shy and passive when it comes to love making. They never bother (or are not willing to invest the time) to read or learn how to be a good bed partner to their husbands. The truth is that some don’t even know how to kiss (applies also to men) – they merely open their mouths. Since kissing does not come naturally to most Asian women, the passion during foreplay is not heightened because of the lack of know-how.
And due to their conservative upbringing, they are not adventurous nor are they willing to do what their husbands like them to do. When husbands are not satisfied, this can lead to marital stress.
In short, if wives can perform up to expectations and satisfy their husbands, everything else will fall into place in a marriage. Wives usually give every excuse not to have sex with their husbands and when they do, it is done so very reluctantly. It is very rare that the wife initiates the love-making or indicates directly or indirectly her interest in having a good time with her husband.
The issue of both partners satisfying each other in a marriage has been underreported.
The message to wives is that they can make a statement of their marriage by making every effort to satisfy their husbands. And best of all, there will be moments of ecstasy each and every time they make love.
No wonder some marriages are more enduring than others although these couples do not seem compatible physically.
A Satisfied Husband
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