The glamorous Chinese actress Zhang Ziyi earns 77 times more money than the man she is rumoured to be dating.

Traditional gender roles are being challenged as Chinese women’s earning power increases.

THE rumoured relationship between film star Zhang Ziyi and popular TV anchor Sa Beining has become a hot topic, and many netizens have expressed “concern” over it because Zhang’s annual income is about 790 million yuan (RM390 million), almost 77 times that of Sa’s.

Irrespective of whether Zhang and Sa have fallen in love, the netizens’ “concern” reflects the traditional Chinese thinking that men should earn more than their wives (or partners).

But in developed countries a growing number of women contribute more to family income than men. This trend is changing women’s traditional role of being “helpless housewives” and challenging the perceived image of men as the “breadwinners”.

Liza Mundy, author of The Richer Sex, wrote in the March 2012 cover story of Time that in the United States, nearly four out of every 10 working women earned more than their partners in 2009, an increase of more than 50 percent from 20 years ago.

While it’s hard to estimate how many Chinese women earn more than their partners, they indeed are contributing an increasing share of household income. In the 1950s, women in China contributed 20% of household income, and the figure rose to about 40% by the 1990s, and 50% in 2009, according to BBC. Generally speaking, women in China still have fewer job opportunities, promotion chances and are paid less than men, but that doesn’t necessarily mean men should earn more than their wives.

According to a survey conducted by the women’s federation and the National Bureau of Statistics in 2010, among people with higher education the number of women was 7.1% more then men. Gary S. Becker, the economics Nobel Prize winner, has said women’s income may surpass that of men if the percentage of women opting for higher education continues.

In China, however, the traditional social pattern of marriage prevails. People still expect women to marry men who are older, taller and richer. But when some women begin to outperform their husbands or partners in income, people shouldn’t use their traditional beliefs to judge their relationship.

The traditional family roles assigned to men and women make it difficult for many career women to fulfil their true potential. They are caught in a dilemma and find it difficult to choose between economic independence and their assigned traditional role of being inferior to the men. It is because of this dilemma that, on one hand, they aspire for higher income and, on the other, cannot come to terms with fact that they earn more than their partners.

The 2012-13 Annual Report on Social Mentality in China, published by the Social Sciences Academic Press, says that less than one percent of the male respondents to a survey in 2010 said that they hoped their future spouses would earn more than them, and only 25.7% said they would love to find a wife who earned as much as them. It seems a career women brings home not only the bacon, but also the tension.

A 25-year study carried out by Jay Teachman, a sociology professor at Western Washington University, shows that up to 40% women who are lead breadwinners of the family are likely to get divorced. Some Chinese scholars suggest that the proportion of 2:1 or 1.5:1 income between a man and woman is perhaps best suited to a stable marriage.

But why should such gender specific income ratio dictate happiness in a relationship? Pride and ego prevent men from taking up tasks, such as household chores and childrearing, which women are supposed to be good at. Men are generally associated with career, money and authority, and being the breadwinners of the family. As a result, conflicts arise when a woman starts earning more than her man.

We have to change our ideas about gender roles in the division of family labour. For example, a man’s worth should be measured only in his authority, ambitious goals and heroic actions, but also in his being a good cook, a loving husband and a caring father.

In fact, househusbands are not uncommon in big Chinese cities. The Institute of Youth and Juvenile Studies, Shanghai Academy of Social Sciences, surveyed 724 households with children under 18 years of age. About 16% of these households, had a stay-at-home parent, of which 40% were full-time household dads. Instead of deriding such men, we should laud them for doing a job that brings out the best in them.

By and large, a happy marriage or relationship is measured by the balance between “market production” and “domestic produciton”, plus a combination of each individual’s needs and charisma. And though social acceptance for changing gender roles will take time, the traditional husband-wife relationship has started to change. – China Daily/Asia News Network

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