Saturday December 3, 2011
Women to the forefront
One Man's Meat
By PHILIP GOLINGAI
The fairer sex seems to be in an apparent bid to take over control. It's happening right at our backyard with the women-only train coaches, taxis and now Malaysia's first women's radio station in Capital FM 88.9. Maybe it's time for men to re-affirm who's the boss ... or not.
MEN, watch out. If we are not careful, sooner or later women will take control and kick us out of the bedroom.
Don't give me that quizzical macho look!
The signs are there. Women-only Keretapi Tanah Melayu Berhad coaches. Then women-only taxis.
And now Malaysia's first women's radio station Capital FM 88.9.
To paraphrase Helen Reddy's song I am Woman, women are roaring “in numbers too big to ignore”.
And the newly-launched Capital FM promises to be “the only radio station that provides women a voice and a hub to exchange thoughts and opinions”.
“Scary”, a male friend, who comes from the Neanderthal age, told me: “This might be a start of a Woman on Top' movement”, while giving me an expression that reminded me of an eunuch.
For me, I kept an open mind. I find the idea of a women's radio station as exciting as a Jennifer Lopez and Pitbull On the Floor music video.
But I did wonder what kind of music Capital FM 88.9 celebrity presenters such as Asha Gill and Joanne Kam would play.
Would it be exclusively songs with a female theme?
Before the radio station went on air on Thursday, I asked my colleague Martin Vengadesan, a music columnist, what he thought.
He suggested: It's Raining Men by The Weather Girls, You Oughta Know by Alanis Nadine Morissette, Independent Women by Destiny's Child and Girls Just Wanna Have Fun by Cyndi Lauper.
The concept of a radio station targeting urban women in Klang Valley aged between 25-35 has also sizzled my Twitter timeline.
Tweeting on the station that aims to be a platform for women's issues, @adellaaudrey commented: “so what do they yak about? Shopping? Sale? Pilates? Girl power? wait, ... MEN???”
Or perhaps cerebral topics as @asohan (Asohan Aryaduray) tweeted: “Something for #CapitalFM to discuss? RT @nytimes Jailed Afghan Woman Freed but Urged to Marry Rapist.”
I was curious about the radio station. So on Thursday, the day it was launched, I eavesdropped.
In their The Jam Break segment (from 4pm to 8pm), radio DJs Xandria Ooi and Liang were talking about the advantage of dating a younger guy.
At 7.49pm a caller named Sue remarked: “It is refreshing. Makes you feel young. Nowadays, there's not much of an age gap.”
Wow! I thought. They're talking about “Cougar” (a woman, 40 years of age or older, who pursues younger men).
Such a subversive topic which 40-something men like me feel threatened.
Gleefully, Sue, the caller, added: “Men now are more open. They can talk about cooking and cleaning. And men clean better. They don't mind doing household work.”
Ouch! Looks like men will be kicked out of the bedroom to the kitchen.
The Obedient Wives Club should protest against such an emasculating statement.
Another “ouch!” was during Groovedown, a 8pm to midnight segment which offers a “safe haven” for women as they are invited to share their thoughts and questions on relationships and social lifestyle.
Presenter Sheela Haran taunted: “Guys, you can listen in as well. Maybe you will learn a thing or two.”
Looks like the “Woman on Top” movement has really begun.
Someone should start a counter movement. Perhaps we should launch a “Real Radio for Real Men”.
Perkasa boss Datuk Ibrahim Ali and Malaysia Under-23 team coach Ong Kim Swee can be a guest in a segment that talks about all things men.
We can have topics such as “Who is more handsome: Wayne Rooney or John Terry?” or “Why a woman should drop everything when the hubby is in the mood for love?”.
Men, watch out. We need to show women who's the boss.
Oops! Got to go as my wife commanded me to prepare milk for our three-year-old Apsara.