In class, teachers often tell or yell at pupils to pay attention. All educators want is for their charges to listen to what is being taught, as attentive pupils are the ones who gain the most from lessons.
Knowledge is power, and the best way to acquire it is simply by listening quietly – whether to the elderly or to someone more experienced – since this practice can yield extraordinary insights.
Effective listening is an active process that requires patience, discipline, peace of mind and hard work. These values can be instilled in school so that pupils develop the ability to gain wisdom that will serve them well throughout life and in times of adversity.
When I was the administrative unit head at a premier school, teacher welfare was part of my responsibilities. Out of respect, I always concentrated on what someone was saying to me and would never interrupt.
By being an attentive and empathetic listener, I helped teachers feel at ease, allowing them to confide in me about their work woes and personal problems.
This not only helped them destress but also enabled me to understand and address their concerns, and to advise and motivate them to give their best for the school.
THIAGAN MATHIAPARANAM
Klang