Fashion freedom: Fostering non-judgemental behaviour towards others’ clothing choices should become the norm, says Tina. — File photo
SOCIETY has its own perceptions and expectations on various subjects, including how people dress.
Social norms often dictate fashion choices, and stereotypes can influence how one views others’ appearances.
While individuals may choose to express their unique personalities through their clothing, sometimes this involves dressing in ways society may not expect.
Unfortunately, it is not uncommon for people to act on these prejudices, whether by commenting on others’ appearances or harassing them, both of which can cause harm to those on the receiving end.
It might seem difficult, but we should always remember that everyone, including those who don’t conform to societal expectations, deserves respect.
People may dress in ways that challenge norms for reasons that are not immediately obvious.
Clothing choices often reflect personal, environmental, psychological and social factors. Sometimes, what seems like non-conformity is simply a preference for practicality and comfort over societal norms.
Other times, dressing differently is a way to highlight one’s uniqueness, as many see clothing as a form of self-expression.
In rare cases, non-traditional attire may stem from psychological struggles, such as seeking control or coping with past trauma.
With changing times, celebrities and the media often influence fashion trends, and younger generations tend to push back against conservative norms.
Youths may use fashion as a way to assert independence or resist rigid traditional stereotypes. Additionally, they may explore their identity through subcultures, finding a sense of solidarity in distinct styles.
In a multicultural country, fostering acceptance of differences ensures a more cohesive and tolerant community.
We should all demonstrate empathy, including towards strangers who don’t meet our “first-impression test”.
Keep in mind that intolerance often leads to bullying, discrimination and harassment.
By being more considerate of others, we can create a safer environment where everyone feels free to express themselves through their clothing choices.
Inclusivity encourages creativity and proves that we can be flexible in adapting to change.
Before commenting on someone’s appearance, consider how your words might negatively affect their feelings and contribute to mental health challenges.
Instead of promoting harmful stereotypes and normalising harassment, we should embrace people as they are, recognising the anxiety many feel in trying to conform to societal norms.
We must also stand up against disrespect, especially forms of sexual harassment.
But here’s a gentle reminder: although everyone should feel free to make their own fashion choices, it is also important to be aware of personal safety and societal perceptions.
This awareness can help you avoid uncomfortable situations. Misconceptions persist, and sometimes it is wise to avoid unnecessary risks.
By considering the occasion and setting, you can adjust your attire while still preserving your personal style. For instance, if you are heading out in the dark, incorporating reflective or light-coloured details into your outfit can enhance your safety without compromising your look.
Fostering non-judgemental behaviour towards others’ clothing choices should become the norm. We can all play our part by speaking up and educating others on the importance of being mindful and reducing misconceptions.
Lastly, remember: criticising or harassing others doesn’t make you better than them; rather, it reflects poorly on your attitude and consideration for others in society.
Tina, 14, a student in Johor, is a participant of the BRATs Young Journalist Programme run by The Star’s Newspaper-in-Education (Star-NiE) team. For updates on the BRATs programme, go to facebook.com/niebrats.
